Accra: Marriage counsellor Charlotte Adu Poku, previously known as Charlotte Oduro, has candidly shared the emotional and societal challenges she encountered after her well-publicized divorce from Apostle Solomon Oduro.
According to Ghana Web, during an appearance on the Talklife TV programme broadcasted on April 21, 2026, Charlotte discussed the broader issues that many women face when they decide to end their marriages. She highlighted the persistent societal expectations and the stigma that often accompany divorce, particularly for women.
Drawing from her personal experiences, Charlotte explained that the real burden of divorce is not necessarily the separation itself but rather society's reaction to divorced women. She recounted an incident where a Ghanaian pastor criticized her publicly under a social media post, suggesting that she should feel ashamed of her decision to divorce.
Charlotte expressed that society often undervalues women who are not married, implying that their worth is diminished without a man in their lives. She noted, "When a woman divorces, it is the stigma that breaks her down. It is not even the divorce that is a concern. It is the stigma that comes with it."
Despite the criticism, Charlotte firmly stated that she holds no shame about her status and views her journey as a testament to her strength and a source of inspiration for other women in similar situations. She emphasized that her decision to leave the marriage was primarily about safeguarding her life and well-being.
The harshest criticism, she revealed, came from within the Christian community, especially from some men of God who openly spoke against her. Charlotte questioned the basis of their criticism, as she had not committed any wrongdoing in her marriage but merely made a personal decision to leave.
Charlotte cautioned that she would no longer tolerate intimidation or bullying from the church regarding her divorce. She remains steadfast in her stance, asserting that her strength and identity are rooted in her faith and personal resilience.